So I'm on the phone to Ms. Foo atm; questioning me about the five languages of love and apology...

http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

So yeah, love is a little harder to dertermine, because I really can't decided.

But apology I can be more certain...

What I most looking for in an apology is maturity. I want to hear the offending party say 'I was wrong and I take repsonsibility for my actions.'

you will do wise to remember this. :P